Parents and the Wedding Budget

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Both of your parents may want to give money toward the wedding? Great! Just remember, communication is the key.
It used to be that the parents of the bride paid for the wedding and the parents of the groom paid for the rehearsal dinner and both gave money toward the honeymoon. But this is no longer a strict guideline.

Ask your parents exactly how much they want to contribute toward the wedding and if they have something specific in mind. Perhaps they want to pay for the photography and flowers, or maybe they don’t want their money going to alcohol or a lavish banquet. If so, let them know that you appreciate their contribution, and you will be sure to use their money for their requested items—or not use their money for the items they’d rather you not.

Remember, your relationship with them should be your top priority. And above all else, make sure that, no matter how much they give, you thank them and show your appreciation for their gift.

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