It’s a Pleasure to Serve!

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After you’ve married, you may be surprised to discover that there’s an interesting dynamic to sexual intimacy. It’s about pleasure, yes, but it’s really about the pleasure of the other, not just you. As you serve one another instead of just enjoying intimacy selfishly, you actually find greater satisfaction and fulfillment in the process.

It’s simple really. Concentrate on affirmation, affection, and acknowledgement of the other, and you’ll enjoy your times of intimacy all the more. Affirm each other physically as well as emotionally; show affection, not just passion; acknowledge your unconditional love and commitment to one another. Serve each other; you’ll be glad you did.

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