Help! We Slept Together!

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"The other night we got carried away and ended up sleeping together for the first time. We both wanted to stay pure until our wedding night, and now we've blown it. What do we do now?"

Truth is, sex before marriage becomes a defining moment in your relationship, and it complicates the relationship more than anyone realizes. First, you may feel guilty. More often than not, you likely compromise the trust you've had between you.

But all is not lost. God is a forgiving God, and if the two of you will be honest enough to tell each other how you much you regret breaking your promise to stay pure, and tell God that too, you can start afresh and move forward in a pure sexual relationship that can be truly wonderful come your wedding night. It won't be easy; in fact, it'll be really hard, but it's worth the wait.

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