What does God expect for our marriage?

It’s a funny thing, God really doesn’t expect anything that’s not in your best interest. He cares for you—often more than you care for yourself!

God knows that it’s best for you to leave your family of origin and bond to the one He gives you as your mate (Genesis 2:24). He loves that you’re forming a new family when you marry, so He expects you and your spouse to become one, to find true companionship, to experience real intimacy, and to reflect His glory in your relationship. To do this, you have to make some changes in the way you view your family of origin so that your spouse comes first.

God also expects you to serve each other unselfishly; accept one another’s unique personalities, needs, and differences—and honor your covenant with each other. He expects you to love each other, be merciful and forgiving, and be patient as you learn and grow together.

All this might sound like a lot, but really, He just wants you to love one another well and enjoy your relationship to the fullest (John 13:34-35).